My goal is for my client to know I am on their side as they face their challenges. I ask them about what they would like to share and how I might best support them. I help them begin to notice that what they are facing can become multifaceted because of how we manage our stressors by reacting in certain ways that may create other issues. I discuss the family system along with all of our life experiences and how they mold and affect us and that we have freedom to change if we decide we would like that. I cultivate my approach to the individual, whether it is a teenager with anxiety, or if it is a depressed, middle-aged woman who lacks supports and is going through a break-up. I work with my client's strengths and help them build a support system as well as coping skills. I often give homework as we near the end of a session, such as a mindfulness exercise along with another task, like a cognitive behavioral therapy tool, such as looking at a situation or thought from another point of view.