Dr. Bobbie Emetu

Bobbie’s multicultural background necessitates that diversity is important to her. Thus, it is imperative for Bobbie to create a therapeutic environment where clients can show up authentically and unapologetically. Due to the unique challenges that LGBTQ+ individuals face, Bobbie is an affirming therapist that aims to create a safe and supportive space for clients to explore their concerns and work towards their goals. She values and respects the diversity of sexual and gender identities and the inclusivity of all individuals.

The goal is to help clients explore past experiences, such as childhood trauma, that may be contributing to sexual difficulties. By identifying and addressing underlying issues, clients can develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their sexuality, leading to improved sexual functioning and satisfaction. In addition, with a solution-focused lens, Bobbie focuses on practical solutions to sexual concerns. She uses techniques such as setting specific goals, concrete homework assignments, as well as assisting clients in developing self-awareness and communication skills.

As a public health professor, she has spent years teaching and conducting research on sexual health, especially through the lens of the needs of LGBTQ+ populations. Thus, in addition to the pedagogy, research and advocacy, it is essential for Bobbie to be part of the clinical aspect of mental health and provide a sensitive and culturally aware platform that provides a non-judgmental outlet for individuals to talk openly and honestly about their sexuality, as well as how identities intersect in other areas of their lives. Bobbie has experience in LGBTQIA+ therapy; gender affirming therapy; sex therapy; couples therapy; emotionally focused therapy; sexual health and functioning; sexual abuse and sexual trauma; polyamory, non-monogamy, and non-traditional relationship configurations; as well as kink and BDSM.

I take a collaborative, client-centered approach, recognizing that no two people have the same experiences or goals. I integrate evidence-based approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), mindfulness, and trauma-informed care, while considering the cultural and social factors that shape each client's life. Together, we'll build on your strengths and develop practical strategies that support meaningful, lasting change.

The first session is an opportunity for us to get to know one another and begin building a trusting therapeutic relationship. I'll take time to understand what brings you to therapy, learn about your experiences and goals, and answer any questions you may have about the process. Together, we'll develop a plan that is tailored to your needs and helps you feel supported from the very beginning.