Debra Kambourian

Do you ask yourself, "Why can't I just get my life together like everyone else?” How about "I'm tired of feeling misunderstood, walked all over, like I can't do anything right." It's easy to feel stuck and alone when struggling in life and relationships. Many opinions about what you're doing wrong and recommendations of how to fix discourage you, leaving you feeling more flawed and confused than before. Most importantly, are you feeling sad and terrified that nobody will EVER get you?

Through my extensive training in both Emotionally Focused Therapy and EMDR, we create a predictable and applicable framework of what happens emotionally and physically as these stressful events were originally experienced. We accomplish this by naming emotions, linking them to thought patterns and behavior, and organizing this cycle, all while it's occurring. This allows for true healing experiences of everyday stressors to traumatic childhood memories.

It is our longing in the human world to find closeness, acceptance, and belongingness with others. The drive for emotional intimacy is a deep craving that, if starved for, creates emotional distress strong enough to leave us reaching for something else . . . or someone else for comfort. It's time to create the fulfillment you've always wanted, and I’m here to help!