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Ebonee Smiley

Therapist
4 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Trauma, Infertility
  • Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy

Great to meet you!

Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, stuck, struggling to understand yourself, or simply exhausted from trying to hold everything together. My approach to therapy is warm, honest, compassionate, and collaborative. I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can be your full self, without judgment, pressure, or the expectation that you have to “get it right. I won’t pretend to have all the answers, and I don’t believe therapy is about me telling you what to do. Instead, I want to understand your world, help you make sense of what you’re experiencing, and work alongside you as you discover what you need to heal.

As a LMFT I naturally think about the relationships and experiences that have shaped you. I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating challenges such as relationship difficulties, marital issues, trauma, anxiety, depression, family conflict, and the complicated emotions that can come with feeling stuck or uncertain about what’s next.

I believe therapy is about relationship. I want you to feel heard, respected, and genuinely cared for in our work together. My hope is that over time, you leave our sessions not only with a better understanding of yourself and your relationships, but also with a greater sense of confidence in your ability to navigate whatever life brings next.

My approach to therapy

My approach is experiential, humanistic, and rooted in systems and emotionally focused therapy. I believe your experiences, relationships, culture, and the world around you all matter. I work collaboratively and with curiosity, helping you better understand your emotions, patterns, and relationships while creating space for you to feel seen, heard, and understood.

What you can expect from me

Together, we'll explore what's happening, identify patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and work toward practical tools for creating meaningful change. Whether you're working on your relationship, healing from trauma, or managing anxiety or depression, my goal is for you to leave therapy feeling more understood, grounded, and confident in yourself and/or your relationships.

About me

  • I identify as
    Black or African descent, Cisgender Woman
  • My style is
    Energetic, Warm, Direct

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    4 years of experience
  • Training
    MS (Master of Science) at National University
  • License type
    LMFT (Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist) (Connecticut)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Trauma, Infertility
  • More specialties
    Substance use / addiction, Family issues, Stress management, Cultural & ethnic issues, Grief or loss, Men's issues, Women's issues, Identity issues, PTSD
  • Therapy methods
    Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic, Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Structural Family, Experiential, Gottman Method / Gottman Couples, Gestalt, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Humanistic, Relational, Attachment Based Family Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Family Therapy, Seeking Safety, Bowen Family Systems, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Care types
    Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy
  • Ages served
    Seniors, Adults
  • Languages
    English