ACT looks at things differently than traditional cognitive-behavioral and insight-based treatment approaches. Instead of treating painful thoughts and feelings as problems to fix, get rid of, or not have, ACT encourages you to accept them for what they are, just thoughts and feelings, and where they are, just inside you. They don’t have to stop you from living the life you want.
ACT focuses on your whole life and broader patterns of behavior, not just specific problems, challenges, or difficult situations. This doesn’t mean you’re ignoring them. They’re acknowledged but placed within the bigger picture of what matters most to you. For example, if anxiety is making it hard for you to pursue loving relationships, ACT won’t try to eliminate your anxiety. Instead, it will help you take action to connect with others, even if the anxiety is still there. The goal is to help you live in alignment with your values, like loving compassionately, connecting caringly, or working effectively instead of waiting until you feel “ready” or “fixed.”
ACT prioritizes action. It asks, “What kind of life do you want to live, and how can you take steps toward it right now?” This shift in focus helps you live in the present moment and act in ways that reflect your values. Staying in the present doesn’t mean ignoring painful thoughts and feelings that show up in a situation. It means learning to experience them without letting them control you.
ACT helps you identify your values, which are like a compass guiding you toward the life you want. Whether your values include building strong relationships, helping others, or pursuing creativity, the therapy focuses on taking meaningful actions aligned with those values. This approach can help you create a fulfilling life, even when things feel hard.
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