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Heather O'Connor

Therapist
~1 year of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Depression, Grief or loss, Men's issues
  • Couples therapy, Individual therapy

Great to meet you!

Hi, my name is Heather. I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) who’s been working in the mental health field since 2008. I earned my degree from Long Island University, and over the years, I’ve had the privilege of supporting adults through a wide range of emotional challenges — including anxiety, trauma, grief, identity struggles, relationship issues, and suicide prevention.

My approach to therapy

My approach is person-centered and collaborative — I meet you where you are, and we work together to get where you want to go. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, misunderstood, or just tired of doing it all alone, I provide a supportive space grounded in compassion, perspective, and (when appropriate) a little humor. Therapy doesn’t have to feel clinical or cold — I believe it works best when it’s human, honest, and real.

What you can expect from me

You can expect a down-to-earth, collaborative process where your experiences are met with empathy, curiosity, and respect. I aim to create a space where you feel heard — not judged or “fixed” — and where we can explore both what’s hard and what’s possible.

My practice is LGBTQ+ affirming and trauma-informed, with a strong commitment to suicide prevention and reducing the shame and silence that too often surround mental health struggles. Whether you’re navigating identity, isolation, crisis, or just trying to stay afloat, we’ll move at a pace that feels right for you, checking in often and adjusting as needed.

I’m also mindful of the stigma of therapy and even medication and the deeply personal decisions people face in seeking support. No pressure here. We can talk openly about what healing looks like for you, including the hard questions, the uncertainties, and the hope.

About me

  • I identify as
    Caucasian, Woman
  • My style is
    Warm, Empowering, Humorous

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    ~1 year of experience
  • Training
    MC (Masters in Counseling) at Long Island University
  • License type
    LMHC (Licensed Mental Health Counselor) (New York)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Highmark BlueCross BlueShield of Western New York, Highmark BlueShield of Northeastern New York, Oscar, Oxford, United Healthcare

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Depression, Grief or loss, Men's issues
  • More specialties
    LGBTQIA+, Stress management, Trauma, PTSD, Transgender issues
  • Therapy methods
    Gottman Method / Gottman Couples, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Problem-Solving Therapy (PST), Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Care types
    Couples therapy, Individual therapy
  • Ages served
    Seniors, Adults
  • Languages
    English