I see my job as helping folks examine why we beat ourselves and others up emotionally, and how to do something different. Together, we’ll work on figuring out what matters most to you and navigating toward it. If you value straight-forwardness, humor, geeky metaphors, and having someone sit with you in the discomfort, we are probably a good match.
Transformations often feel isolating and overwhelming; life-affirming changes may create distance from the people you care about. When we question ourselves, its hard to know where to turn for perspective. I love working with folks who see themselves as outside the gender and relationship mainstream; it takes a lot of courage and can also be painful to navigate. We can dig into what your identity means to you and how to embody it while building a life worth showing up for.
Our work together will face growing pains related to identity, relationships, and living a life in line with the things you value most. We'll create a better understanding of what you want and need in life, practice communicating effectively in the midst of big emotions, and start to rebuild connection with yourself and others. I especially love working with folks who are part of the trans, queer/LGBT+, non-monogamous, and kink/BDSM communities. Your identity is worthy here.
