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Koalani Lahr

Therapist(She/Her)
14 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Stress management, Maternal mental health, Trauma
  • Individual therapy

Great to meet you!

From the outside, you're holding it all together. Inside, you're exhausted from overthinking, feeling on edge, and putting pressure on yourself to get everything right. You replay conversations and worry about making the wrong decision. You may feel guilty for struggling when you think you should be fine and feel bad asking for help. As a perinatal therapist and anxiety therapist, I help adults move out of survival mode and feel more grounded, confident, and like themselves again through infertility, pregnancy, postpartum adjustment, and the challenges of anxiety, burnout, and emotional overwhelm.

My approach to therapy

Together, we’ll build coping skills for lasting change so you’re not just managing stress in the moment but shifting how you respond over time. Things will begin to feel quieter and more manageable. Overthinking loosens, self-doubt softens, and you can pause instead of spiraling. You’ll feel steadier, more present, and more connected to what matters most.

What you can expect from me

You don’t have to carry this alone. If you’re ready to feel more like yourself again, I offer a free 15-minute consultation to see if it feels like a good fit.

Visit my website for more info: www.koalanilahr.com

About me

  • I identify as
    Other Racial or Ethnic Background, Hispanic, Pacific Islander, Cisgender Woman
  • My style is
    Open Minded, Affirming, Warm

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    14 years of experience
  • Training
    MA (Master of Arts) at University of San Diego
  • License type
    Not specified

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Stress management, Maternal mental health, Trauma
  • More specialties
    Depression, Cultural & ethnic issues, Grief or loss, Women's issues, Identity issues, Infertility
  • Therapy methods
    Somatic, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Strength-Based, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Care types
    Individual therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults
  • Languages
    English
Offers free consultationsNext available