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Lori Kay

Therapist(She/Her/Hers)
12 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Eating disorders, Grief or loss, Maternal mental health, Relationship issues, Trauma
  • Individual therapy

Great to meet you!

I integrate mindfulness and psychotherapy in a way that invites the body into the healing conversation, particularly for those whose relationships with food, safety, or self have been shaped by trauma. Much of my work is with trauma survivors and individuals navigating eating disorders, where the body is often both messenger and refuge. In my clinical work, as in my own life, I slow down to listen from the inside out—anchoring in breath, sensation, and intuition, and allowing the body’s quiet wisdom to guide what unfolds. Grounded in my studies of sociology, I hold each person within the larger systems that have shaped them, trusting that when we loosen our grip on certainty and stay present with what arises, even in moments of pain or confusion, something begins to reorganize. Healing often emerges not through force or striving, but through openness, attunement, and a gentle willingness to feel our way into the truth of our own experience.

My approach to therapy

In our work together, the process itself becomes the guide. While we’ll collaborate around intentions and meaningful goals, I believe the most lasting shifts arise through the moment-to-moment experience of being in relationship, rather than striving toward any single outcome. My approach weaves psychodynamic, relational, spiritual, and somatic practices within a trauma-informed framework. Together, we’ll explore not only thoughts and emotions, but also the body’s wisdom and the quieter layers of self that often emerge only when given space. This integrative work invites body, mind, and soul back into connection, allowing healing and growth to unfold in a way that feels organic, grounded, and deeply your own.

What you can expect from me

Working together can support you in reconnecting with your innate strength and widening the lens through which you understand yourself and your life. Our work may involve gently tending to old wounds, cultivating the capacity to stay present with what’s here, and nurturing a sense of possibility as you move forward. My intention is to help you feel more at home in yourself, with greater ease and trust as you continue along your unfolding path.

About me

  • I identify as
    Caucasian, Cisgender Woman
  • My style is
    Warm, Inquisitive, Direct

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    12 years of experience
  • Training
    MSW (Master of Social Work) at Adelphi University, BA (Bachelor of Arts) at SUNY New Paltz
  • License type
    LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) (New York)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, Carelon Behavioral Health, Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey, Oscar, Oxford, United Healthcare

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Eating disorders, Grief or loss, Maternal mental health, Relationship issues, Trauma
  • More specialties
    Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Stress management, Women's issues, PTSD
  • Therapy methods
    Psychodynamic, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Attachment Based, Strength-Based, Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT), Experiential, Trauma Focused CBT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Humanistic, Psychoanalytic, Relational
  • Care types
    Individual therapy
  • Ages served
    Adolescents, Seniors, Adults
  • Languages
    English