Dr. Luisa Vallejos

I work with adults navigating relationships, intimacy, identity, and life transitions, with particular expertise in polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and Relationship Anarchy. My approach is practical, relational, and liberation-focused. I help clients develop communication skills, emotional regulation, self-awareness, and the confidence to create relationships that reflect their values rather than simply following inherited rules Couples are seen on a private pay basis only.

I help people break free from painful relationship patterns, stop losing themselves to keep the peace, and build the capacity for authentic intimacy. Together, we'll develop the clarity to make intentional choices about how you love, relate, and live. I work affirmingly with LGBTQIA+, ENM, polyamory, relationship anarchy, kink, and sex work.

Reaching out for therapy can feel vulnerable, especially if you've spent years believing you should handle everything on your own. You deserve a space where all parts of you are welcome. If you're ready to begin, I'd be honored to walk alongside you.

I believe healing happens on more than one level. Some of what hurts is personal. Some of it comes from oppression pressing in from the outside...and some of it touches the big questions of meaning and purpose. My work draws on liberation psychology alongside existential, humanistic, and transpersonal perspectives, and I bring in Internal Family Systems (IFS), mindfulness-based approaches, and experiential work. The goal isn't only to cope. It's to understand the forces shaping your life and to reclaim more freedom within it.

We'll start by getting clear on what you want, then build a plan together. From there, our sessions are focused and collaborative, and you'll leave with tools you can use right away. Expect honesty, warmth, and real effort from both of us, plus some laughter along the way.