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Monique Selman

Therapist(She/her)
5 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Stress management, Cultural & ethnic issues, Relationship issues, Identity issues
  • Individual therapy, Family therapy

Great to meet you!

Hey, I’m Monique Selman, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who believes therapy should be both insightful and a little fun. I specialize in helping high-functioning individuals who feel overwhelmed in their relationships and personal growth. Using a warm, humorous, and real-talk approach, I help you develop self-awareness, strengthen boundaries, and navigate emotional challenges with confidence. In our sessions, you’ll get both practical tools and a supportive space to work through what’s been holding you back.

My approach to therapy

My approach is warm, direct, and solution-focused—I believe in balancing deep self-reflection with practical strategies. I integrate positive psychology, CBT, and holistic wellness to help you understand yourself better, set boundaries, and improve your relationships. Sessions are engaging and collaborative, creating a space where growth feels both achievable and empowering.

What you can expect from me

You’ll walk away with clarity, confidence, and practical tools to break old patterns and build a life that aligns with your values. My goal is to help you create lasting change, whether that means stronger boundaries, healthier communication, or a deeper sense of self-awareness. Therapy with me is a judgment-free zone, where you’ll feel heard, supported, and challenged to grow in the best way possible.

About me

  • I identify as
    Black or African descent, Cisgender Woman
  • My style is
    Solution Oriented, Open Minded, Humorous

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    5 years of experience
  • Training
    MS (Master of Science) at University of Nebraska-Lincoln, BA (Bachelor of Arts) at Ohio University (Athens, OH)
  • License type
    LMFT (Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist) (South Carolina, Virginia, Washington)
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey, Independence Blue Cross Pennsylvania - Virtual National Network, Kaiser Permanente of the Mid Atlantic, Oscar, Oxford, Providence Health Plan, Regence BlueShield of Washington, Regence BlueShield of Washington Medicare Advantage, United Healthcare, United Healthcare Medicare Advantage

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Stress management, Cultural & ethnic issues, Relationship issues, Identity issues
  • More specialties
    Depression, OCD, Family issues, Women's issues
  • Therapy methods
    Exposure Response Prevention, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Experiential, Motivational Interviewing, Multi-Systemic (MST), Positive Psychology
  • Care types
    Individual therapy, Family therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults, Seniors
  • Languages
    English