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Patricia Valencia

Therapist(She/Her)
13 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Family issues, Stress management, Relationship issues, Trauma

Great to meet you!

Listen, I get it. Your 40s and 50s hit different. Between parenting a child with special needs, caring for aging parents, running your business—or juggling all of it—you're stretched impossibly thin. You're anxious, burned out, maybe carrying trauma, while everyone leans on you. I see you holding it all together, and I'm here to tell you: you deserve support too. Together, we'll find calm in your chaos, set boundaries without the guilt trip, and reconnect you with what YOU need. Therapy isn't selfish—it's survival. Let's stop just getting through the day and start actually living again.

I help Gen Xers work through anxiety, family conflict, messy relationship dynamics, and unresolved trauma. You've been managing everyone else's needs while your own pile up. Let's change that. Together, we'll tackle what's keeping you stuck, heal old wounds, and help you show up differently in your relationships—without losing yourself in the process.

Look, you're juggling aging parents, your own kids, sibling drama—all while pretending you've got it handled. Spoiler Alert: you're at the end of your rope, and that's not okay. I work with Gen Xers who are done walking it off and being teflon. Let's deal with the mess, set some boundaries, and get you breathing again. Book a free consultation. Let's Go!

My approach to therapy

Our work together is rooted in genuine collaboration and deep listening. I'm here to truly hear you—to ask the questions that matter and help you uncover the connections that bring clarity to your experience. What works for you, what feels right for your life, and what speaks to your individual needs—these are at the heart of everything we explore. I create a space where reflection becomes transformation, where insights from our sessions ripple into your everyday life. Through consistency and commitment, you'll discover lasting change and profound growth that's authentically yours.

What you can expect from me

Imagine a space where you truly feel safe and understood, a place where every part of you is welcome to explore and express itself. In our sessions, I prioritize your comfort and individuality, ensuring that you feel seen and supported every step of the way. With an eclectic approach, I tailor each experience to meet your unique needs, empowering you to embark on a transformative journey. Together, we will navigate your current challenges while guiding you towards your desired destination for growth and healing. Take the first step towards a brighter future!

About me

  • I identify as
    Black or African descent, Latinx, Cisgender Woman
  • My style is
    Inquisitive, Empowering, Warm

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    13 years of experience
  • Training
    Master of Arts in Mental Health Counseling at Post Campus, Long Island University, Other at CW Post Campus of Long Island University
  • License type
    LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) (Connecticut)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Providence Health Plan

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Family issues, Stress management, Relationship issues, Trauma
  • More specialties
    ADD/ADHD, Bipolar disorder, Depression, LGBTQIA+, Anger management, Panic disorders, Cultural & ethnic issues, Maternal mental health, Men's issues, Women's issues, Identity issues, PTSD, Diabetes, Chronic conditions
  • Ages served
    Adolescents, Adults, Seniors
  • Languages
    English