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PILAR VERDESOTO
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Licensed Clinical Social Worker
New York

In-network with

Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Anthem EAP - Bank of America, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, Cigna, Oscar (Optum), Oxford (Optum), and United Healthcare (Optum)

Specializes in

Depression, Family Issues, Grief, Loss, Relationship Issues, and Trauma

Great to meet you!

As an LCSW practicing in NY for over 30 years in a variety of community, school, residential and hospital settings including practicing privately for the last 18 years, my extensive training and background has provided me with invaluable knowledge, privilege, and experience enabling a genuine connection with and ability to help parents, couples and individuals who are struggling with life stressors (including family and work life) and transitions.

A bit about my approach to therapy

I believe in an eclectic style, while working towards understanding our stories from the past and how these impacts on our daily lives and our bio- psychosocial/emotional functioning. That is, drawing from traditional psycho-dynamic models, viewing concerns through the Family Systems lens while helping clients find relief as they learn skills and acquire tools to manage, regulate, calm and understand their emotions as they relate to losses, grief, trauma and life transitions.

What you can expect from our first session

Utilizing a strength-based approach you can expect to learn (CBT, DBT) adaptive coping skills. Keeping in mind of course that there is no “one size fits all when it comes to therapy” I will be tailoring the treatment to the needs and goals we identify together throughout the process. I view the therapeutic relationship as a journey taken together as we work within the safety of our sessions but do not underestimate the value of the work done outside of the office.


PILAR's style is

Warm
Affirming
Empowering

Insurance carriers PILAR accepts

Aetna
Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield
Anthem EAP - Bank of America
Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts
Cigna
Oscar
Oxford
UnitedHealthcare

More about PILAR

MSW (Master of Social Work) at COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY SCHOOL OF SOCIALWORK
License type: LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) (New York)
Gender: Female
Ethnicity: Other Racial or Ethnic Background, Hispanic, and Latinx
Languages: English and Spanish
Works with: Adults and Seniors
More specialties: Anxiety
Modalities: Trauma Focused, Strength-Based, Dialectical Behavioral (DBT), Psychodynamic, and Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)

Location

220 Route 6
Mahopac, NY 10541