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Thomas Kurtz

Therapist
33 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Family issues, Men's issues, Trauma
  • Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy

Great to meet you!

Welcome! Reaching out for therapy takes courage, and I'm glad you're here.

I’m here to create a space where you feel truly heard, where you can be yourself without feeling like you have to hide anything, and where healing can truly begin. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, life changes, or questions about your faith, we’ll explore what’s holding you back, develop useful tools for change, and uncover the strengths you might not realize you have.

I have been a licensed mental health therapist for more than 30 years, helping individuals and couples navigate individual and relationship difficulties, including emotional regulation, worry, grief, life transitions, and questions of meaning and purpose. I also have extensive experience working with court-involved clients and individuals facing complex behavioral challenges, although much of my practice focuses on the everyday struggles that affect all of us.

Clients often tell me they feel comfortable talking with me because they don't feel judged. My style is warm, collaborative, and practical. I believe the best therapy happens in the context of a genuine relationship where you feel safe enough to be honest, ask difficult questions, and where change occurs naturally. For those who desire it, I'm also comfortable integrating Christian faith into the counseling process. My goal is never to impose beliefs but to thoughtfully incorporate your spiritual values as one part of your whole-person and healing. Whether you're seeking relief from emotional or physical pain, or want greater resilience, healthier relationships, or simply need a place to be heard, I would be honored to walk alongside you

My approach to therapy

I believe people rarely seek therapy because they lack information. Most already know what they "should" do. They come because something keeps getting in the way—anxiety, painful experiences, relationship patterns, self-criticism, or simply feeling stuck.

My approach is to help you make sense of your life before trying to change it. Together we'll slow things down, understand the patterns that have shaped you, and identify practical steps toward the life you want to live. I believe lasting change comes through greater awareness, healthier relationships, and small, meaningful actions practiced over time.

Rather than relying on a single method, I draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Family Systems Theory, Narrative Therapy, and other evidence-based approaches. Every person is different, so therapy should be tailored to your unique story, personality, goals, and values.

Whether your goal is relief from anxiety, healing from painful experiences, improving relationships, or finding greater purpose, my role is to walk alongside you with compassion, honesty, and practical guidance as we work toward lasting change.

What you can expect from me

Many people come to their first session wondering what they should say or worried they won't know where to begin. You don't have to have it all figured out—that's why you're coming.

The first session isn't about solving your life. It's about seeing it more clearly. Sometimes the greatest relief isn't finding an immediate solution. It's finally having someone help you make sense of what has felt confusing for so long.

Our first conversation isn't about me analyzing you or rushing to a diagnosis. It's about getting to know you, understanding what has brought you here, and beginning to make sense of your story together. Often, people leave that first session saying, "I've never thought about it that way before.”

My hope is that you'll leave with more than someone who listened. I want you to leave feeling understood, with a clearer picture of what's happening in your life and a growing sense that meaningful change is possible.

About me

  • I identify as
    Caucasian, Cisgender Man
  • My style is
    Open Minded, Solution Oriented, Inquisitive

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    33 years of experience
  • Training
    MA (Master of Arts) at Chapman University
  • License type
    LMFT (Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist) (Washington, Colorado)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Providence Health Plan

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Family issues, Men's issues, Trauma
  • More specialties
    Stress management, Panic disorders, Relationship issues, PTSD
  • Therapy methods
    Strength-Based, Bowen Family Systems, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Exposure Response Prevention, Problem-Solving Therapy (PST), Gottman Method / Gottman Couples, Attachment Based Family Therapy, Relational, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Attachment Based, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Family Therapy, Behavioral Activation (BA), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Trauma Focused CBT
  • Care types
    Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults, Seniors
  • Languages
    English
  • Location
    11747 Northeast 1st Street Suite 303
    Bellevue, WA 98005