Xiaoli Meng Lumpkin

I am a bilingual English/Mandarin LCSW-R with 23 years of experience in mental health treatment in New York City. Before earning my degree from Columbia University School of Social Work, I developed a diverse academic foundation through studies at Princeton University’s School of Public and International Affairs, as well as in literature and linguistics at two esteemed universities in China. Over the past 30 years, my enriching interracial marriage has deepened my understanding of diverse cultural and social dynamics, shaping my ability to recognize and appreciate the unique psychosocial and cultural experiences of each client. My reputation is built on my ability to quickly identify core issues and provide effective solutions that address clients' concerns.

As a curious thinker and world traveler, I integrate my diverse experiences, professional expertise, and lifelong learning to support individuals in navigating life’s challenges. My approach blends Eastern philosophy, holistic and mindfulness practices, and specialized training in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), psychodynamics, attachment-based therapy, solution-focused techniques, and strength-based strategies.

With 23 years of experience working with individuals of all ages, genders, and backgrounds, I provide a safe and trusting environment where you can openly explore distress, process your thoughts and emotions, and gain meaningful insights. As an active listener, I offer constructive feedback that promotes self-awareness, empowers you to leverage your strengths, and helps you navigate life directions and develop effective coping skills to manager personal and interpersonal relationship difficulties. At your own pace, I will support your personal growth and guide you toward achieving your goals.