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Xinli Fan

Therapist
4 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Anxiety, Anger management, Grief or loss, Relationship issues, Trauma
  • Individual therapy, Child or adolescent therapy

Great to meet you!

Hi, I’m Xinli Fan, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist dedicated to helping teens, young adults, and adults navigate trauma, anxiety, anger, and relationship challenges. With specialized training in EMDR, IFS, and EFT, I take a holistic, culturally sensitive approach to therapy. I aim to create a safe, supportive space where you can heal, grow, and regain control of your life.

My approach to therapy

I believe in a compassionate, collaborative, and personalized approach to therapy. Using trauma-informed and attachment-based techniques, I integrate EMDR, IFS, EFT, and mindfulness to help you process pain, develop healthier relationships, and build emotional resilience. Therapy with me is where you can feel seen, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes.

What you can expect from me

When working with me, you’ll experience a compassionate yet structured approach to therapy. During our initial sessions, we’ll take time to build trust, explore your history, strengths, and goals, and create a personalized plan to address your needs. I provide regular check-ins to track progress and refine strategies throughout our work. Clients often leave sessions with greater self-awareness, emotional regulation skills, and practical tools to navigate life’s challenges. My goal is for you to feel confident, connected, and hopeful as you move toward healing and growth.

About me

  • I identify as
    Asian, Man
  • My style is
    Empowering, Holistic, Open Minded

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    4 years of experience
  • Training
    MA (Master of Arts) at Wheaton College
  • License type
    LMFT (Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist) (Texas, Missouri), LCMFT (Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist) (Kansas)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Ascension, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Kansas City, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Texas

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Anxiety, Anger management, Grief or loss, Relationship issues, Trauma
  • More specialties
    ADD/ADHD, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Eating disorders, OCD, Family issues, Stress management, Panic disorders, Cultural & ethnic issues, Men's issues, Identity issues, PTSD
  • Therapy methods
    Psychodynamic, Motivational Interviewing, Attachment Based, Strength-Based, Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Relational, Narrative Therapy, Trauma Focused CBT, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Psychoanalytic, Play, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Care types
    Individual therapy, Child or adolescent therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults, Seniors, Adolescents, Children
  • Languages
    English, Mandarin