If conflict at home or a relationship stuck on the same argument is wearing you down, I can help. I'm Eduardo Santiago, a licensed professional counselor in Oklahoma who has worked with individuals, couples, and families since 1998, in English and Spanish. My focus is relationships, family dynamics, ADHD, and depression, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to build skills you can actually use between sessions. I'd be glad to work with you.
My approach is grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: we look closely at the thoughts and habits that keep a problem on repeat, and build practical skills you can use the same week. For couples and families, that often means new, more direct ways to work through conflict instead of circling the same argument. I also draw on family and relationship-focused methods when that fits your situation better. Sessions stay collaborative. You set the pace, and we adjust as we learn what actually helps.
Introductions and rapport building: You’ll meet your therapist, discuss your background, and get a sense of their approach. Small talk or a casual tour may help ease initial nerves.
Confidentiality and informed consent: Your therapist will explain privacy policies, including situations where confidentiality may be legally limited, and answer any questions.
Intake and background information: You’ll discuss your personal history, relationships, support systems, and current challenges. Forms may be completed to provide context and document consent.
Goal setting: You’ll talk about why you’re seeking therapy and what you hope to achieve, helping your therapist begin to create a personalized plan.
Therapist’s approach: Your therapist may explain their methods, style, and what to expect in future sessions.
Questions and discussion: You’ll have the opportunity to ask questions about therapy, expectations, or the therapist’s experience.
Closing and next steps: The session usually ends with scheduling the next appointment and summarizing key points.
