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Jesse Stiller

Therapist
16 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Substance use / addiction, ADD/ADHD, Stress management
  • Individual therapy

Great to meet you!

Hi, I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 15+ years of experience specializing in the treatment of substance use disorder. I’m also a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC II), which means I bring advanced training and credentialed expertise in addiction treatment to my work.

My approach to therapy

For Individuals

My approach is grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Substance Use Disorders (CBT-SUD), an evidence-based approach that helps you understand the thoughts, feelings, and situations that drive substance use and build practical skills to change those patterns. Together, we’ll work on identifying triggers, managing cravings, and developing healthier ways of coping.

I also have experience treating depression and anxiety, and I use behavior modification strategies to help you break unhelpful patterns and build new ones. My goal is to help you create positive lifestyle changes so you can rediscover enjoyment in life.

Whether you’re taking the first step, maintaining recovery, or healing after a setback, I offer a nonjudgmental, collaborative space where you set the pace and the goals.

For Family Members

Addiction affects the whole family. If someone you love struggles with substance use, I can help you recognize codependent patterns, set healthy boundaries, and take care of your own well-being while still supporting the person you care about.

If you’re ready to talk, I’d be glad to hear from you.

What you can expect from me

What to Expect in Your First Session

Starting therapy can feel nerve-wracking, so here’s what to expect. It’s a conversation, not an interrogation, and you decide how much you share and how quickly.

In our first meeting, we’ll get to know each other. I’ll ask what brought you in, how substance use is affecting your health, relationships, work, and daily life, and about your mental health and support system. We’ll talk about your goals, and I’ll meet you where you are, without judgment or pressure.

I’ll also introduce how CBT-SUD works: looking at the connection between your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and learning to spot the triggers that lead to use. Before we finish, we’ll sketch out an initial plan together, which may include a simple skill to practice, like tracking cravings. We’ll also decide how often to meet, and I’m happy to answer any questions about confidentiality or scheduling.

For Family Members

If someone you love is struggling with substance use, you don’t need to have it all figured out to begin. The first session is a supportive conversation focused on you, not on fixing the person you’re worried about.

We’ll talk about how this has been affecting your stress, relationships, and well-being, and you share only what feels comfortable. We’ll look at patterns that may have developed, like rescuing or putting your own needs last. These are common responses to addiction, with no blame or shame. Together, we’ll work on what you’d like to change, whether that’s setting firm but caring boundaries, managing guilt, or supporting someone without losing yourself. You’ll leave with a clear next step.

About me

  • I identify as
    Caucasian, Woman
  • My style is
    Empowering, Holistic, Solution Oriented

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    16 years of experience
  • Training
    MSW (Master of Social Work) at Savannah State University
  • License type
    LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) (North Carolina)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Curative

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Substance use / addiction, ADD/ADHD, Stress management
  • More specialties
    Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues
  • Therapy methods
    Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Positive Psychology, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Behavior Modification, Strength-Based, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Motivational Interviewing, Psychoanalytic, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Problem-Solving Therapy (PST), Cognitive Processing (CPT)
  • Care types
    Individual therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults, Seniors
  • Languages
    English