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Being stretched thin isn't a character flaw. More often, it's a sign of how much you're capable of holding, a capacity that's never been given any room to breathe.

Being stretched thin isn't a character flaw. More often, it's a sign of how much you're capable of holding, a capacity that's never been given any room to breathe.
Most of the people I work with are dependable: the person everyone leans on and no one thinks to check on. You show up, you handle it, you carry what needs carrying. And somewhere in there, rest turned into something you have to earn, and setting anything down started to feel like letting people down. I get why. For many of us, especially as we navigate who we are, where we come from, and what the world hands us to carry, being needed becomes the price of belonging.
I won't just nod along. I'll tell you what I'm actually noticing, and then I'll trust you to figure out what's true for you, because you're the one who has to live it, not me. We'll look at the real machinery underneath: why the "yes" comes out before you've checked what it costs, why a limit feels like a failure, why taking space sounds selfish when you say it out loud. My aim isn't to fix you. It's to help you get honest about what you actually want, underneath everything you think you're supposed to do.
I bring particular care to identity, culture, and context, and to the folks who don't always see themselves reflected in a therapy. If any of this sounds like you, I'd be honored to do the work alongside you.