Wendy Coates

As a licensed marriage and family therapist since 1995, I know the importance of healthy relationships with ourselves and others. I studied psychology at the University of California, Irvine, and the University of San Francisco. In 2005, I relocated to Virginia, and completed postgraduate coursework at Virginia Tech. I serve on the Virginia DVIP Certification Board, have authored several therapy books, and I facilitate the Domestic Violence Intervention Program for Loudoun County.

Most of us seek therapy in search of happiness; we know it exists, but we can't seem to get there. I provide honest, straightforward feedback because your time is valuable. While therapy is validating and supportive, meaningful change requires moving beyond comfort zones. My expertise is working with couples and adult individuals. I specialize in helping people heal trauma, gain insight, strengthen self-awareness, correct problem patterns, and develop personal agency.

My approach is direct with compassionate curiosity. Our adaptive coping strategies become protective shields blocking healthy relationships. Therapy requires the courage to be vulnerable while shifting from auto-pilot to intentional living. I provide a safe space to work through internal/external challenges, and I will be with you every step of the way toward your goals. Working with people is my passion.