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Marianne Lopez

Therapist
26 years of experience
  • Virtual
  • Men's issues, Relationship issues, Women's issues, Trauma, Chronic conditions
  • Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy

Great to meet you!

I’m glad you’re here.

For nearly 30 years as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I’ve had the privilege of helping folks through some of life’s messier chapters—relationship struggles, trauma, addiction, anxiety, depression, and those seasons when you look around and wonder, “How in the world did I get here?”

My practice is Be Seen & Heard Therapy Co., and that name says a lot about how I approach therapy. I believe people need a place where they can show up honestly, feel heard without judgment, and figure out what comes next.

I have a special place in my heart for the people everybody else leans on—the caregivers, helpers, healthcare professionals, first responders, educators, military families, and those holding everything together with a smile while quietly running on fumes.

My style is warm, direct, and just a little bit sassy. I’m not much for sitting back, nodding, and saying “mm-hmm” for fifty minutes. We’re going to talk honestly, get curious about what’s keeping you stuck, and find practical ways to help you move forward.

I’ll offer compassion when you need it, a little challenge when it’s called for, and probably a laugh or two along the way. Healing is hard enough without feeling like you’re sitting in a stuffy office being psychoanalyzed.

Life can get complicated. People can be complicated. And sometimes, if we’re being fair, we’re the complicated part.

That’s okay.

You don’t have to have everything figured out before you begin. Just come as you are, and we’ll sort through it together.

Be Seen. Be Heard. Be You.

My approach to therapy

My therapy style is direct, practical, and grounded in real psychological safety. I’m not the kind of therapist who’s going to sit back, nod politely, and watch you stay stuck. If there’s a pattern getting in your way, we’re going to talk about it—and more importantly, we’re going to work on changing it.

I work especially well with helping professionals—healthcare workers, first responders, educators, attorneys, military members, and the folks everybody else depends on. The strong ones. The responsible ones. The ones carrying half the world on their shoulders while telling everybody, “I’m fine.”

Truth is, you’re probably very capable. You’ve likely figured out a whole lot of hard things in life already. But being capable doesn’t mean you’re not tired. It doesn’t mean you’re not carrying stress, resentment, grief, burnout, or relationship struggles that nobody else sees.

That’s where our work comes in.

Together, we’ll look at the patterns underneath the symptoms—the people-pleasing, over-functioning, perfectionism, anxiety, self-criticism, relationship conflicts, and old wounds that keep showing up in new clothes. We’ll get honest about what’s working, what isn’t, and what needs to change.

As a trauma-trained therapist, I understand how chronic stress affects your nervous system, your relationships, and even how you see yourself. I’ll help you learn practical tools to calm the noise, set healthier boundaries, communicate more effectively, and respond with intention instead of reaction.

You can expect compassion, honesty, accountability, and probably a little laughter along the way. We can sit with the hard stuff without letting it steal all the oxygen out of the room. You don’t have to keep being everybody else’s rock while quietly falling apart yourself.

There’s a better way forward, and I’d be honored to help you find it.

What you can expect from me

Therapy starts simple—we get to know each other. No rush, no pressure, and no pretending you have everything figured out on day one. You deserve to feel comfortable, understood, and clear about how I work before we start digging into the heavy stuff. We build that foundation first, because real change doesn’t grow where you don’t feel safe.

And then... we get to work.

We’ll take an honest look at the thoughts, beliefs, and patterns that have been running the show behind the scenes—shaping your choices, relationships, and the stress you’ve been carrying far too long. If something is keeping you stuck, I’m going to point it out. Kindly, of course—but I’m not much for sugarcoating either.

Awareness is a start. Change is better.

I’ll give you practical tools you can actually use when real life gets messy—ways to calm your nervous system, quiet the mental noise, set boundaries without a three-day guilt spiral, and stop treating every problem like a five-alarm fire.

This isn’t therapy where we rehash the same story for months and call it progress. We’ll make room for your story, understand it, and then figure out what needs to happen next.

Some sessions will feel heavy. Some will bring clarity. And some will probably include a little laughter, because I don’t believe healing has to feel like punishment.

Step by step, we’ll work toward helping you feel more grounded, more clear, and a whole lot less weighed down by things you were never meant to carry forever.

About me

  • I identify as
    Caucasian, Woman
  • My style is
    Warm, Direct, Humorous

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    26 years of experience
  • Training
    Other at Mary Washington College, MSW (Master of Social Work) at Virginia Commonwealth University
  • License type
    LICSW (Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker) (District Of Columbia, Massachusetts, Rhode Island), LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) (Virginia, Illinois, Kentucky, Oregon), LMSW (Licensed Master Social Worker) (Michigan)
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield, Ascension, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Illinois, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts, CareFirst BlueCross BlueShield, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna, Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey, Independence Blue Cross Pennsylvania - Virtual National Network, Kaiser Permanente of the Mid Atlantic, Oscar, Oxford, Harvard Pilgrim Healthcare, Priority Health, Providence Health Plan, Regence BlueCross BlueShield of Oregon, United Healthcare

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    Men's issues, Relationship issues, Women's issues, Trauma, Chronic conditions
  • More specialties
    Substance use / addiction, Anxiety, ADD/ADHD, Bipolar disorder, Depression, OCD, Family issues, LGBTQIA+, Stress management, Anger management, End of life care, Grief or loss, PTSD, Infertility, Diabetes
  • Therapy methods
    Experiential, Structural Family, Humanistic, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Processing (CPT), Attachment Based Family Therapy, Relational, Schema, Solution Focused Couples Therapy, Multi-Systemic (MST), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Trauma Focused CBT, Gottman Method / Gottman Couples, Motivational Interviewing, Critical Incident Stress Debrief (CISD), Attachment Based, Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT), Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Care types
    Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults, Seniors
  • Languages
    English