As a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, I follow the model that our emotions come from our thoughts. Therefore, in order to feel better, we need to think better. CBT is like taking a class on your own thinking—recognizing patterns and learning how to challenge or shift your thoughts to improve your emotional well-being.
I also recognize that setting personal boundaries is a common struggle. I often encourage clients to reframe the golden rule—not just "do unto others," but also "do unto yourself as you would do unto others." Life is demanding, and prioritizing self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. By caring for yourself, you stay "charged" and better equipped to support both yourself and those around you.