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Elise Tobey

Psychiatric Mental Health NP
~1 year of experience
  • Virtual
  • ADD/ADHD, LGBTQIA+, Identity issues, Chronic conditions
  • Medication management, Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy, Child or adolescent therapy

Great to meet you!

Elise is a child, adolescent, and family psychiatry provider specializing in neurodivergence, ADHD, autism, and rare genetic conditions that can have lasting behavioral implications. She utilizes a family-centered, systems-based approach to care, recognizing that a child's well-being is deeply connected to the health and functioning of the entire family. Her goal is to help children and families thrive together by addressing biological, developmental, environmental, and relational factors that influence mental health and behavior.

My approach to therapy

Family-Centered Behavioral Care Strategy

Philosophy of Care

This care approach recognizes that behavior is a form of communication and is influenced by a complex interaction of physiological, nutritional, environmental, sensory, developmental, emotional, and relational factors. The family is viewed as the primary expert on the child, and interventions are developed collaboratively to support the child within the context of their unique strengths, needs, culture, and family system.

The goal is to identify and address underlying contributors to behavioral challenges rather than relying solely on symptom management or punitive responses.

What you can expect from me

During your first session, my primary goal is to get to know you and your family—not just the challenges that brought you here, but also your strengths, values, and goals. I take a comprehensive, whole-family approach to care, recognizing that behavior, emotions, and mental health are influenced by many interconnected factors.

We will spend time discussing developmental history, medical history, family dynamics, school or work experiences, daily routines, sleep, nutrition, sensory needs, and any concerns related to attention, learning, emotional regulation, or behavior. For neurodivergent individuals, I am particularly interested in understanding how their unique brain works and how we can best support their success.

Rather than focusing solely on symptoms or diagnoses, I aim to understand the underlying factors contributing to current challenges. Together, we will identify priorities, discuss treatment options, and begin developing a personalized care plan that aligns with your family's goals and values.

By the end of the appointment, you can expect to have a clearer understanding of my recommendations, opportunities to ask questions, and a collaborative plan for next steps. My hope is that you leave feeling heard, understood, and empowered with a path forward.

About me

  • I identify as
    Caucasian, Woman
  • My style is
    Energetic, Open Minded, Holistic

Qualification and insurance

  • Years of experience
    ~1 year of experience
  • Training
    Other at Regis University, MSN (Master of Science in Nursing) at Hawaii Pacific University
  • License type
    APRN (Advanced Practice Registered Nurse) (Hawaii)
  • Licensed in
  • Insurance accepted
    Aetna, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Hawaii, Carelon Behavioral Health, Cigna

Cost

Care details

  • Top specialties
    ADD/ADHD, LGBTQIA+, Identity issues, Chronic conditions
  • More specialties
    Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, OCD, Sleep disorder, Family issues, Stress management, Panic disorders, Cultural & ethnic issues, Physical health issues, Maternal mental health, Relationship issues, Women's issues, Trauma, PTSD
  • Therapy methods
    Art Therapy, Parent Management Training (PMT), Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS), Cognitive Behavioral Conjoint Therapy for PTSD, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Relational, Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT), Trauma Focused CBT, Psychoeducational Family Therapy, Seeking Safety, Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), Experiential, Cognitive Processing (CPT), Biofeedback, Cognitive Behavioral Family Therapy, Child-Parent Psychotherapy, Gottman Method / Gottman Couples, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Structural Family
  • Care types
    Medication management, Individual therapy, Family therapy, Couples therapy, Child or adolescent therapy
  • Ages served
    Adults, Infants / Toddlers, Children, Adolescents
  • Languages
    English
  • Location
    1003 Bishop Street # 2700
    Honolulu, HI 96813

Nearby areas

  • Honolulu, HI