

Connect with New Mexico therapists and counselors accepting Aetna insurance. Patients save an average of 75% on sessions through Headway's 526 provider network, with copay ranges of $0-$30 and flexible scheduling options.
Hi, I'm Adaobi — a Psychiatric–Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with over a decade of experience in nursing and outpatient mental health care.
If you're looking for someone who will truly listen, you're in the right place. My clients often tell me that what they value most is feeling heard — and that's exactly where I start. Whether you're dealing with depression, anxiety, ADHD, bipolar disorder, PTSD, or something you can't quite name yet, I'm here to help you make sense of it without judgment.
I work with adults who grew up with emotionally immature or emotionally unavailable parents. Many come in feeling lonely, empty, or misunderstood, often stuck in people‐pleasing, low self‐esteem, anxiety, or depression, and unsure of who they are or how to form lasting emotional connections. I also support clients facing work stress, major life transitions, and grief. Together, we slow things down, build insight, strengthen identity and boundaries, and develop skills for emotional regulation and healthier relationships so clients feel more grounded, confident, and connected.
Tonia Caselman holds a Masters Degree in clinical social work and a PhD in Human Development. She is licensed in the state of New Mexico and has worked in a myriad of settings (inpatient, outpatient, residential, hospice and the university), helping clients and teaching future therapists. She has written several treatment manuals and created several therapeutic games for children. Her specialties include family therapy, women's issues, children/adolescents and grief/loss.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker experienced in helping clients navigate anxiety, trauma, relationship difficulties, and major life changes. I have a strong background in both mental health and addiction recovery, which allows me to meet clients with empathy, honesty, and real-world understanding.
My work is trauma-informed, strengths-based, and collaborative. I use CBT, grounding techniques, and practical coping tools to support clients in building emotional stability, confidence, and resilience. I believe healing happens when you feel safe, heard, and empowered.
As clinical social worker, I know that there is not an easy fix to all of our challenges. However, it is my mission to find a path to healing. Together we can develop tools and positive coping skills to get through these difficult times. I am passionate about helping people who want to help themselves live life to the fullest. I utilize a variety of treatment modalities, especially CBT and DBT therapy.



Headway makes it easy to get affordable in-network mental health care with Aetna — from finding the right therapist or psychiatrist, to understanding costs, to booking your first session.
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