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Top couples therapists in San Jose, CA

Navigate relationship challenges with compassionate couples therapy in San Jose. Our providers specialize in communication, trust-building, and emotional intimacy to help partners reconnect. Sessions are available within days, with most clients saving 75% through insurance.

Michelle Ho

Michelle Ho

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 2.9 mi away • San Jose, CA


I'm an open minded individual and welcome any topics in treatment

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Rashmi Nayak

Rashmi Nayak

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 4.6 mi away • Campbell, CA


“I work at a pace that feels safe for you, not rushed toward insight before your nervous system is ready for it.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Humorous, Inquisitive
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Deniss Pleiner

Deniss Pleiner

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 5.3 mi away • Santa Clara, CA


“I combine exploring the "why" behind your struggles with practical tools like somatic practices, journaling, and boundary-setting that you can use immediately.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues, Maternal mental health
Holistic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Milly Thomas

Milly Thomas

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 5.4 mi away • San Jose, CA


Being a therapist and helping people overcome feelings of isolation and conflict is one of my life's greatest joys. I specialize in helping individuals, families, and couples work through depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues. I also provide critical assistance through domestic violence and rape counselling. It is important to me to help patients along on their journey through professional, evidence based counselling.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Erik Wilkerson

Dr. Erik Wilkerson

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • 9.5 mi away • Los Gatos, CA


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My Training

I am a licensed clinical psychologist and a graduate of the PGSP–Stanford Psy.D. Consortium, a program known for its rigorous academic training and emphasis on evidence-based care. There, I received instruction and mentorship from some of the leading clinicians and researchers in the country. My practice draws on specialized training and extensive experience in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, and comprehensive psychological assessment.

My Approach to Therapy

My clinical approach is focused, compassionate, and results-oriented. I work actively with clients to identify what’s holding them back, and to build the tools and insight needed to move forward with clarity and confidence. For individuals, I use CBT to help shift unhelpful thought and behavior patterns. For couples, I use EFT to deepen emotional connection, improve communication, and restore trust. Whether I’m working with a client facing anxiety, burnout, or relationship conflict, my aim is always the same: to help you reconnect with your strength, values, and capacity for meaningful change.

My Professional Background

Before becoming a psychologist, I served as a U.S. Marine Corps officer, including deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan. Leading diverse teams in high-stress environments taught me how to connect across differences—with people of all backgrounds, beliefs, and personalities. That experience continues to shape my work today. I bring a grounded, nonjudgmental presence to therapy, and I take seriously the responsibility of earning each client’s trust. My passion—both then and now—is helping individuals become the strongest, most authentic version of themselves.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Direct, Humorous, Solution-oriented
Accepts 2 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Robyn Medcalf

Robyn Medcalf

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 11 mi away • Los Altos, CA


“With over 35 years of experience, Robyn is a warm and seasoned guide dedicated to helping people find healing and hope.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Chally Grundwag

Chally Grundwag

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 13 mi away • San Mateo, CA


Hello,

I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist in California. My goal as a therapist is to support you in your journey to regain trust in your unique strengths and overcome life's challenging situations, and help you make your life happier and more meaningful. My style is warm, collaborative, and culturally sensitive.

I have been in practice for over a decade, and work with a wide range of conditions including trauma, depression and complex life transitions.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Family issues, Grief or loss, Identity issues
Creative, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Diler Bilgin

Diler Bilgin

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 15 mi away • Fremont, CA


“I aim to create a warm, supportive space where you can talk openly, feel understood, and begin to make sense of what you're going through.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Susanne Ebert-Khosla

Susanne Ebert-Khosla

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 17 mi away • Palo Alto, CA


“I provide you with the safe and secure space in which you can explore unresolved and painful feelings that keep you stuck.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Grief or loss, Panic disorders
Inquisitive, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Janet Croteau

Janet Croteau

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 22 mi away • Felton, CA


“I'm a "inclusiastic" therapist who invites you to use our relationship as a template to find the sweet spot between safety and your growing edge as a human.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Camille Lendormy

Camille Lendormy

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oakland, CA


“My approach to providing care includes empathetic listening, unconditional positive regard, transparency and radical curiosity.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Anna Davidson

Anna Davidson

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oakland, CA


“As a queer woman, an artist, & creatively centered therapist with certifications in energy work and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, what I bring to the healing space is deeply unique & holistically embodied.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Family issues, Grief or loss, Identity issues
Creative, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Brianna Webb Almanza

Brianna Webb Almanza

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Alamo, CA


“My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in reverence for you and the power of your story. We'll utilize curiosity, practical suggestions, and fearless self-awareness to build self-attunement and tangible change.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Meghan Fuller

Dr. Meghan Fuller

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Oakland, CA


“My work is grounded in psychodynamic and psychoanalytic approaches, with careful attention to development, attachment, trauma, and the complexity of each individual's inner life.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Genean Jeffery-Johnson

Genean Jeffery-Johnson

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Berkeley, CA


“I help you slow down enough to notice what's actually happening in your body in the moment things get hard, not just the words being said.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Challenging, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Anna O'Connor

Anna O'Connor

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Albany, CA


“We'll explore ways you are shaped by family, community, and culture, and what this means about how you show up in the world.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Arthur Kleinberg

Arthur Kleinberg

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Albany, CA


“The work of joining a person in articulating, understanding, and organizing their experience is a wonderful thing.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Family issues, Grief or loss
Affirming, Inquisitive, Participatory
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Christelle Harris

Christelle Harris

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Pacific Grove, CA


“I am a wholistic therapist, focusing on not just talking, but how your body holds trauma, anxiety, depression and pain.”
Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Kimberly Burton

Kimberly Burton

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Stockton, CA


“Through self-realization and freedom, I help clients to live their lives to their fullest potential.”
Anxiety, Depression, Identity issues, PTSD, Stress management
Affirming, Challenging, Humorous
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tandrea Thysell

Tandrea Thysell

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Stockton, CA


Hi, I'm Tandrea Thysell, a California-based Marriage & Family Therapist. I've been providing therapy for most of my life (I think I was born to do this!), but professionally for more than 10 years.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Carmen Cuevas

Dr. Carmen Cuevas

Therapist

Virtual • San Diego, CA


“My goal is to provide a supportive, culturally responsive space where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to build on their strengths and create meaningful, lasting change.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Aritcela Vega

Aritcela Vega

Therapist

Virtual • California


“In our sessions, you won't find a "blank wall" therapist. You'll find a real person who listens with empathy, offers gentle nudges when needed, and celebrates your wins with you.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Stephanie McVea

Dr. Stephanie McVea

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach to therapy is collaborative, compassionate, and grounded in respect for each person's unique story.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Bernadette Brennecke

Bernadette Brennecke

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I strive to be empathetic, practical and client centered. I attempt to meet the client where they are.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Grief or loss
Challenging, Direct, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Kathleen Mates-youngman

Kathleen Mates-youngman

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to offer a safe space for clients to share, gain self-awareness, and explore and overcome any challenges or roadblocks to experiencing a fulfilling life and relationships.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Jennifer Hellman

Jennifer Hellman

Therapist

Virtual • California


I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience working in community mental health, co-occurring substance use treatment, and residential care settings. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, substance use challenges, mood disorders, relationship stress, and major life transitions.

I believe therapy works best when clients feel heard, respected and supported without judgement. My approach is collaborative, trauma-informed, and tailored to each client's unique needs and goals. I draw from CBT, motivational interviewing, and strengths-based approaches to help clients build insight, emotional stability, and healthier coping strategies.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Empowering, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Ursula Antonik-Buxton

Ursula Antonik-Buxton

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I will ask a lot of questions to truly understand the problem at hand and look for small steps that lead to the goals that you want to achieve.”
ADD/ADHD, Grief or loss, Panic disorders, PTSD, Trauma
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Dr. Kasey Marsh

Dr. Kasey Marsh

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I've seen how pain that goes unspoken can quietly shape a person, a marriage, and an entire family...”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Dennis Olsen

Dennis Olsen

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello! My name is Dennis Olsen and I am currently A Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. I have worked with children, teenagers, and adults focusing on issues such as stress, anxiety, addiction, co-dependency, family issues, relationship issues, and many more. My joy and purpose on earth is to help others become their best self! I genuinely do care about my clients and want to see them thrive despite all the hardships or obstacles they have endured from their past or currently. I am here to help support you achieve those dreams/goals that have always been on your mind. There are a multitude of unhealthy habits and excuses that get in the way of improving ourselves each day. My hope is to help you get closer towards those goals during our time together through discussion, challenging activities, opening up, and building positive coping skills/healthy habits.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Rebecca Zaragoza

Rebecca Zaragoza

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that humans have a remarkable ability to grow and heal, and they do this best when they feel seen and heard.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Diane Anderson

Diane Anderson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I have been in private practice for the past 18 years. I see myself as a CBT therapist with other emphasis in Psychodynamic clinician.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions, Depression
Creative, Direct, Inquisitive
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Melody LeBaron

Melody LeBaron

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My treatment approach is a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy, solution-focused, person-centered, positive psychology, and humanistic interventions.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Kabirat Oyenuga

Kabirat Oyenuga

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


Mental health has long been treated as the forgotten side of healthcare — and for me, that's exactly why it matters so much. As a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner serving clients across California through telehealth and in-person care, I specialize in helping people navigate depression, anxiety, and ADD/ADHD. I believe that when mental health struggles go unaddressed, everything else in life suffers — and that healing is not only possible, it's necessary. When I'm not supporting my clients, you'll find me out in nature, getting lost in a good movie, or discovering new music — small reminders of the joy and balance I encourage my clients to find for themselves.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Sophia Nairima

Sophia Nairima

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative and patient-centered. I take time to understand your full picture: your history, your stressors, your goals, and what is already working.”
ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Eating disorders
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Christopher Fernandes

Christopher Fernandes

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Folsom, CA


“I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental to support adults with anxiety (including social anxiety, OCD, and panic), depression, trauma, grief, relationship stress, burnout, and major life transitions.”
ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Men's issues, OCD
Creative, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier
Jessica Kim

Jessica Kim

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe difficult feelings — shame, sadness, anxiety, guilt, unworthiness, fear, anger, doubt, rage, and loneliness—are the doorway to embracing your whole self.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Family issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 1 insurance carrier

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Tim Won

Tim Won

Therapist

Virtual • La Palma, CA


Hello, I'm Timothy (Tim) Won, LMFT, AAMFT Approved Supervisor, and retired U.S. Army Chaplain with over 24 years of experience serving individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in helping clients navigate trauma, PTSD, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My training includes EMDR, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), CBT, and Neurofeedback. I strive to provide a safe, compassionate, and practical approach tailored to each person's unique needs and goals. My passion is helping people find healing, restore hope, and build stronger relationships.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Kathi DeLaRosa

Kathi DeLaRosa

Therapist

Virtual • California


I am a person-centered therapist who creates a warm, nonjudgmental space where you are seen and heard. Together we will build practical coping skills and explore your values and strengths so you can navigate life's challenges with greater clarity, confidence, and resilience

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Justyna Wawrzonek

Justyna Wawrzonek

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy should be a collaborative process where you feel safe, understood, and empowered to explore the challenges that are keeping you stuck.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Grief or loss, Identity issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Dr. Andrew Vandernoot

Dr. Andrew Vandernoot

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“My work is grounded in a dynamic approach, focusing on the deeper emotional patterns and relational and childhood experiences that shape how we think, feel, and connect.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Inquisitive, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

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Find the right couples therapist for you

Headway makes it easy to find support for your relationship — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Couples Therapist in San Jose

Searching for couples therapists in San Jose starts with identifying what you want to work on together. Couples therapy may focus on communication, repeated conflict patterns, trust after infidelity, major life changes, parenting disagreements, or premarital concerns. If you are also comparing couple counseling San Jose, marriage counseling San Jose, or unmarried couples counseling options, look for a therapist whose profile lists specific couples experience. Not all therapists have training in couples work, so it can help to look for licensed marriage and family therapists or therapists trained in approaches like the Gottman Method or Emotionally Focused Therapy.

In San Jose, finding one therapist who works for both partners can depend on schedule, location, and appointment format. Local in-office options may be more limited in some neighborhoods, so virtual couples therapy can expand the number of therapists available across the Bay Area. As you compare San Jose couples therapy options, consider appointment availability, whether the therapist is accepting new clients, and whether they offer a brief consultation for both partners to assess fit. Reading profiles can also show how a therapist structures sessions, communicates with couples, and supports shared goals.

Couples therapy in San Jose, CA can be a significant expense without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs and understand your estimated out-of-pocket cost before you book. Headway helps you search for couples therapists who accept a wide range of insurance plans, compare profiles, and book directly when you are ready. This makes it easier to find a therapist who matches your needs, works with your schedule, and is accepting new clients.

If you're experiencing or worried about violence, threats, or coercion in your relationship, couples therapy isn't usually the right starting point — individual support is safer. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.

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