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Top couples therapists in Tulsa, OK

Find a couples therapist in Tulsa who understands your unique relationship dynamics. Headway offers flexible scheduling and virtual sessions with 188 providers trained in relationship therapy. Many clients save significantly on sessions through insurance coverage, focusing on what matters most—your partnership.

Martha Bebee

Martha Bebee

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Stillwater, OK


“My goal is to see my clients living the life they were created to live, understanding themselves, their relationships, and God more fully.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Family issues
Challenging, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 13 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Liza Arroyo

Liza Arroyo

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I aim to make therapy feel like a safe, welcoming space where you can be heard, understood, and truly seen—without judgment or pressure to be anyone but yourself.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Catherine Herring

Catherine Herring

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is eclectic and deeply personalized. I draw from cognitive-behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, mindfulness & meditation, positive psychology, EMDR & EFT approaches, and inner-work therapy...”
ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Family issues, Grief or loss
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Angela Ashton

Angela Ashton

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I strive to help individuals identify, address, and resolve the issues that negatively affect their daily lives.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Somer Robb

Somer Robb

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I believe everyone has a story to tell and the power to write their own future. I have over ten years experience in the mental health field and have been a licensed therapist for five years. I work with all age groups and like to meet individuals where they are and walk with them through their journey to better mental health.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Herbert Lomax

Herbert Lomax

Therapist

Virtual • Broken Arrow, OK


I am a passionate therapist who strives to empower my clients

I utilize an eclectic therapeutic style that allows me to meet the client where they are to help them accomplish their goals

Being a therapist is more than a job to me. It is a calling



Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Jayde Agbo

Jayde Agbo

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Through authentic conversation, perspective-shifting, and evidence-based practice, I will help you rediscover your strength and build a life that feels more grounded, balanced, and true to you.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Empowering, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Evaristus Fotindong

Evaristus Fotindong

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe true healing happens when individuals are seen as whole people—mind, body, and lived experience—not just symptoms.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jason Huber

Jason Huber

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“The stigma and negative feelings that many people experience when seeking therapy bothers me. I don't have many answers but will do my best to provide tools for perspectives that can lead to growth.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Creative, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Shelly Mccharen

Shelly Mccharen

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I will stand beside you as you go through the tough things and support you in improving your life on your terms.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Eating disorders, Family issues, Grief or loss
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Henry Evbuomwan

Henry Evbuomwan

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I primarily use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) — the gold-standard treatment for OCD and anxiety — and Behavioral Therapy (BT) techniques.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Tiamara Drew

Tiamara Drew

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Lawton, OK


“My approach is collaborative and affirming, creating a supportive space where we can explore your experiences together and develop meaningful strategies for healing and growth.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders, Family issues
Challenging, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Raegan Deaton

Raegan Deaton

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe in meeting you where you are and helping you move from surviving to living with greater clarity, confidence, and connection.”
Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Maternal mental health, Panic disorders
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Holley Elam

Holley Elam

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


“I speak candidly and, at times, will challenge you to dig deep in order to gain insight, self-awareness, and personal growth.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Challenging, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Dawn Marie Bonham

Dawn Marie Bonham

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I have been in the field of mental health for the past 32 years also providing psychosocial rehabilitation and case management services, prior to my licensure.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Direct, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dane Beam

Dane Beam

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I work from a holistic standpoint, incorporating attachment Polyvagal Theory and Attachment Theory to address foundational ruptures in identity...”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Identity issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Ben Wagner

Ben Wagner

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My style is warm, direct, and nonjudgmental. I strive to create a space where you feel safe to be open and honest, while also providing thoughtful feedback and gentle challenges when appropriate.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Empowering, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Hannah Maness

Dr. Hannah Maness

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Over the years, I have worked with diverse populations, including individuals recovering from acute trauma, childhood adversity, and postpartum mental health. My approach integrates evidence-based practices with compassionate, person-centered care, recognizing that every individual’s experience is unique. By tailoring interventions to each client’s needs, I create a safe and supportive environment where healing can unfold. As a licensed clinical social worker, I am deeply committed to helping individuals reclaim their strength and resilience in the face of adversity. Specializing in trauma-informed care, I bring expertise in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to empower my clients on their healing journey.

Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Maternal mental health, PTSD
Affirming, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Marla Murray

Marla Murray

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I am a compassionate, trauma-informed therapist who helps individuals and families heal from past wounds and build healthier, more confident lives.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Jeff Plunkett

Jeff Plunkett

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Midwest City, OK


It seems like life should be better than this - I have heard some version of this sentence from every client, couple, or family for more than two decades of counseling. They believe that life and relationships should function better and are trying to figure out how. The clients I have seen are struggling with relational dysfunction, anxiety, depression, grief, or the residue of trauma. Many of them feel lonely, confused, and hopeless about one or several issues within their story. Many of the stories are very hard and painful. Understandably, they all want to find a better way to live their lives and change the story.

I have studied far beyond the minimum so that I can genuinely help people create transformation in their lives and relationships. I don't just help them feel better today, but I give them systems that can work for a lifetime. Life can be better, as hundreds of former clients can confirm. I help people design a transformed life.

I recognize that for many, fundamental transformation feels inaccessible and unrealistic. Many of the clients that I have helped in the past thought the same thing. They now have a new story to tell themselves and others. Let's design your life transformation together.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Jeffrey Nemeth

Jeffrey Nemeth

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I use a combination of approaches based on the client's needs. Emotional focus therapy helps couples identify their cycles and begin to change emotional communication patterns.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Amy Settles

Amy Settles

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you feel understood, respected, and empowered to make meaningful changes.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Affirming, Direct, Humorous
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Tammi Young

Tammi Young

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oklahoma City, OK


“I love helping people who are survivors of sexual abuse or domestic violence because I get to watch God's healing power in action...”
PTSD, Trauma
Empowering, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Catherine Elrod

Catherine Elrod

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I’m Cat (she/her), a therapist who works with adults navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, identity exploration, burnout, and life transitions. Many of my clients are cycle-breakers, helpers, deep feelers, and members of the LGBTQIA+ community who are used to carrying a lot for others while struggling to care for themselves. I strive to create a therapy space that feels warm, affirming, collaborative, and free from judgment — a place where you do not have to mask, minimize your experiences, or have everything figured out before showing up.

My approach is trauma-informed and rooted in family systems, attachment, and nervous system regulation. I integrate evidence-based approaches including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), and Motivational Interviewing (MI), while tailoring therapy to each person’s unique needs, relationships, and lived experiences. I also have experience working with LGBTQIA+ clients, polyamory and nontraditional relationship dynamics, serious mental health concerns, and trauma-related challenges.

My goal is to help clients feel more grounded, connected, and empowered while building meaningful and lasting change in their daily lives and relationships.

ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, LGBTQIA+, Stress management
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Monica Hamer

Monica Hamer

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I use a holistic approach to therapy that empowers clients to build insight, resilience, and meaningful change while honoring the connection between mind, body, and emotional wellness.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Grief or loss, Panic disorders
Affirming, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Johnny Milla

Johnny Milla

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I specialize in working with high-stress populations using evidence-based approaches such as CBT and DBT.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Energetic, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Christine Custred

Christine Custred

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Edmond, OK


“I use both Cognitive and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps clients identify and reframe unhelpful thought patterns, while Dialectical Behavior Therapy adds powerful tools for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and...”
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Kathie Schofield

Kathie Schofield

Therapist

Virtual • Calera, OK


I have degrees in nursing, public affairs and environmental management, and social work. It is an interesting combination because I have more lenses than just one to view a client's issues. For example, I can understand the health conditions from a medical perspective, any toxicology issues from the environmental perspective such as workplace exposure to volatile organic compounds, and the social work perspective of mental health, social functioning, and community resources. I have worked with depression, adults molested as children, porn addiction, adoption issues, anxiety, life transitions, grief, PTSD, and more. I have done psychotherapy as a licensed clinician since 2002. Prior to that I had experience in mental health as a nurse.

Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, End of life care
Direct, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
LaShawn Underwood

LaShawn Underwood

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Edmond, OK


“I believe in creating a safe and supportive environment where clients can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Empowering, Humorous
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Ebony Harold

Ebony Harold

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My style is warm and grounded, while also being honest and intentional about helping you move forward.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
D'Ann Doerflinger

D'Ann Doerflinger

Therapist

Virtual • Edmond, OK


“For over 16 years, I've been committed to guiding people through these struggles, offering a compassionate and supportive space for healing.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Dr. Trillion Small

Dr. Trillion Small

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I work with high-functioning, driven adults who are successful on the outside but often carrying pressure, over-responsibility, or internal strain on the inside.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Stress management
Affirming, Challenging, Empowering
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Akemi Malgonkar

Akemi Malgonkar

Therapist

Virtual • Warr Acres, OK


“I like to explain to my clients how depression and anxiety have their own propagandas and can skew the brain but when understood one can reclaim their lives.”
Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Humorous, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Michelle Morrison

Michelle Morrison

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I am a Native American woman, Navy veteran, and licensed clinical social worker with a deep passion for healing and service.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, Diabetes
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Lynly Grider

Lynly Grider

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oklahoma City, OK


“I am passionate about helping adults who feel emotionally exhausted, stuck, or disconnected from the person they want to be.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression
Empowering, Energetic, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Ethan Randall

Ethan Randall

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I have special training in trauma (Certified Clinical Trauma Professional) and I know trauma can impact us in many ways...”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Barbara Traylor-Lane

Barbara Traylor-Lane

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 29 mi away • Hominy, OK


“I believe therapy should be a safe, predictable, and nonjudgmental space where clients feel supported, understood, and empowered.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Direct, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Theda Griffin

Theda Griffin

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


Hello, I'm Theda. With over 25 years of experience in the mental health and addiction fields, I have had the privilege of working with individuals, groups, and families in various clinical settings, including inpatient, outpatient, in-home, and group homes. My journey in mental health began with a Bachelor of Science in Psychology and a Master of Education in Agency Counseling from Southwestern Oklahoma State University, and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Kara Herd

Kara Herd

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I’m a person-centered therapist who believes therapy is about helping you come back to yourself. I aim to create a space that’s warm, honest, and affirming, where you don’t have to shrink or overexplain who you are. My experience lies mainly in supporting folks who may be navigating anxiety, depression, and ADHD, pre- and postpartum mental health. We’ll work together in a way that feels practical and empowering. With a deep commitment to meeting people where they are, I would love to support you while you take a step toward enhancing your health and wellness.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Premadonna Braddick

Premadonna Braddick

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Rather than allowing her past to define her limits, she turned every obstacle into a stepping stone, crafting a life mission to help others find peace from broken pieces.”
Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss, Infertility, Trauma
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book

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