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Top couples therapists in San Diego, CA

Strengthen your relationship with evidence-based couples therapy in San Diego. Headway connects you with 2,657 licensed providers experienced in conflict resolution, communication, and relationship issues. Sessions are available virtually or in-person, with most clients saving 75% through insurance.

Yesenia Ramirez

Yesenia Ramirez

Therapist

Virtual • Santa Clara, CA


“I am Latina, first-generation, a mother of daughters, a doctoral candidate in depth psychology, and someone living with ADHD.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 16 insurance carriers
Randy Ogle

Randy Ogle

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 29 mi away • San Marcos, CA


“My goal is to provide a supportive, respectful space where you feel heard and understood, while also helping you develop practical tools to move forward in your life.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Shaliss Padilla Lmft

Shaliss Padilla Lmft

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 29 mi away • San Marcos, CA


I am Shaliss Padilla MA, LMFT, the Founder, CEO and Clinical Supervisor of group private practice MindbodyologyTM. I am also a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology. In addition, I am a Holistic Psychotherapist, (or what I have coined a MindbodyologistTM), also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Specialist. I offer live and online support groups and workshops for survivors of narcissitic abuse and toxic relationships.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Challenging, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Dr. Evelyn Vasquez

Dr. Evelyn Vasquez

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Vista, CA


“I specialize in evidence-based trauma treatments (Prolonged Exposure, CPT, and EMDR) that have strong track records for resolving PTSD...”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Energetic, Inquisitive
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Melinda Katahara

Melinda Katahara

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Carlsbad, CA


I see therapy as a collaborative process. Together, we identify patterns that may be keeping you stuck, develop healthier coping strategies, and build on your existing strengths to foster lasting change. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, or major life transitions, I aim to help you feel more grounded, empowered, and capable of creating the life you want.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Direct, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Roberto Netter

Roberto Netter

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Carlsbad, CA


“My job is to listen very carefully and accompany you as we uncover the sources of your pain and the patterns of beliefs that need correction.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Energetic, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Ronda Jacobs Lmft

Ronda Jacobs Lmft

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • 29 mi away • San Marcos, CA


I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and Lead Clinician. I received my Master of Arts from Western Kentucky University have been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 1996 and provided services in child welfare settings involving abused and neglected children and parents who experienced addiction, trauma, PTSD, depression, and anxiety. I also have years of experience working in a private practice setting, working with teens, adults, couples and active duty military. I also specialize in treating trauma and PTSD using EMDR.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Carolyn Millikin

Carolyn Millikin

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Vista, CA


“My clients feel seen and understood following our sessions. They have new coping skills and are validated as they progress.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, End of life care
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Elma Samantha Quintero

Elma Samantha Quintero

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Vista, CA


“I believe you are the expert of your own story—my role is to walk alongside you with compassion, encouragement, and respect.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Creative, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Natalie Campbell

Natalie Campbell

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Vista, CA


Hi I'm Natalie and I want to help you build a life that feels authentic and purposeful. Do you feel like you’re navigating life on autopilot, and have difficulty showing up for your work, your relationships, or yourself? You may find yourself caught in cycles of people-pleasing or seeking external validation, only to end up feeling drained and unfulfilled. If you feel stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, know that you don’t have to navigate this alone. In our sessions, we’ll move beyond the 'what' to understand the roots of your struggle while building practical, compassionate strategies to help you reclaim your confidence and advocate for your needs.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Lisa Ritter

Lisa Ritter

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Temecula, CA


“I draw from research-based approaches, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), to help you build insight, re-wire negative thinking, and strengthen emotional resilience.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, End of life care, Family issues, Grief or loss
Creative, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Mika Heinonen

Mika Heinonen

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Temecula, CA


Hey there—I'm Mika, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who's here for real talk and real support for adults and teens right here in Southern California. I've spent years helping people work through tough life events like trauma, addictions, ADHD, burnout from high-pressure jobs, anxiety, depression, and rocky relationships. What I love most is seeing folks step into their strength and build the life they want—I'm here to walk that path with you, no judgment, just genuine care.

ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Creative, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Tonya Pan-Weisz

Dr. Tonya Pan-Weisz

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Temecula, CA


“I aim to strike the balance between acceptance and change, responsiveness and structure, and the art and science of therapy.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers
Lindsey Ritter-Ingorvaia

Lindsey Ritter-Ingorvaia

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Murrieta, CA


“We create a safe space where you feel heard and understood, using evidence-based techniques like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and solution-focused methods.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Identity issues
Humorous, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 10 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Marsi Walker

Marsi Walker

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Murrieta, CA


“Marsi believes that therapy works best when clients feel supported and empowered to take their next steps at their own pace.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Dr. Julie DeVito

Dr. Julie DeVito

Psychologist

Virtual & in-person • Mission Viejo, CA


“My patients can expect a relaxed, safe space, an environment of acceptance and non-judgement, empathy, positive regard and respect, and a collaborative approach to treatment.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Amy Montague

Amy Montague

Psychologist

Virtual • California


I have been practicing for 40 + years, in the Southbay, Torrance area. I am a psychologist with a Ph.D. I specialize with young children, adolescence. I also work with couples, families and am practized in depression, anxiety, psychosis, and divorce. I utalize cognitive/behavioral and psychdynamic therapies. I match my approach to the personality and needs of thebpatient.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Open-minded, Participatory
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Dr. Joseph Garcia

Dr. Joseph Garcia

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe that meaningful change occurs when clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to build on their strengths.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Brianna Buell

Brianna Buell

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello, my name is Brianna. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have joined the mental health field in 2022, working in community based mental health. I graduated from California Baptist University, with a Master’s of Science in Counseling Psychology. I have gained experience working with individuals and families, that struggle with anxiety, depression, life stressors, & relationship issues.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Dr. Perrine Portillo

Dr. Perrine Portillo

Psychologist

Virtual • Auburn, CA


I use an integrative, holistic, trauma-informed, and culturally aware approach. My style is warm, empathetic, and thoughtful, as well as active, pragmatic, and concrete. I foster a safe environment for deep reflection and for developing and implementing the necessary tools to encourage desired change.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 2 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
John Schempf

John Schempf

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I've focused on providing care to individuals/couples/families experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, crises, substance abuse and anger management.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Energetic, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Scott McQueen

Scott McQueen

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I combine a warm, relational, and evidence-based approach that promotes safety and trust to target the root causes of distress.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Eleanor Raymond

Eleanor Raymond

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hi I'm Eleanor! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California and New Mexico. I am passionate about empowering people to build self-trust and self-acceptance. Most of my clients come to therapy because they want to make a change or cope with a change that they did not choose.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Maryam Tajiki

Maryam Tajiki

Psychologist

Virtual • California


“I see therapy as a genuine partnership. Before anything else, I want to understand what you're carrying and what you hope feels different.”
ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Eating disorders
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Samantha Alvarez

Samantha Alvarez

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I work with children, adolescents, young adults, and parents, using a warm, supportive, and down-to-earth approach that helps clients feel safe, understood, and empowered.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Mary Wade

Mary Wade

Therapist

Virtual • California


I'm Mary, and I want you to know that whatever's bringing you here — anxiety that won't quiet down, a relationship that's fraying, grief you can't shake, or patterns you keep repeating despite your best efforts — you don't have to figure it out alone. I've worked with individuals, couples, families, and teens facing some of life's hardest chapters, and I genuinely believe that the right support at the right time changes everything.

I'm California-licensed and offer telehealth sessions statewide, which means flexible, private care from wherever you're most comfortable. I accept Aetna, Blue Shield of California, Cigna, and Carelon Behavioral Health, and I'm happy to help you understand your benefits before your first session.

Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Katherine Dickerson

Katherine Dickerson

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is simple: to meet you where you are and help you build a life that feels more meaningful and more healthy.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Natalie Trzeciak-Hardwick

Natalie Trzeciak-Hardwick

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe the beauty of the therapeutic space is that there is safety to explore and own the story that has shaped who you are.”
ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 8 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Monique Gonzales

Monique Gonzales

Therapist

Virtual • San Andreas, CA


“I believe therapy should feel collaborative, supportive, and tailored to each individual's unique needs.”
Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jill Lawler

Jill Lawler

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My goal is to offer a warm, welcoming space where clients feel heard, respected, and supported as they move toward healing, growth, and a more balanced life.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Grief or loss
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Stephanie Shepard

Stephanie Shepard

Therapist

Virtual • California


“Her approach is direct, supportive, and human-centered, combining evidence-based techniques with humor, honest feedback, and practical tools for change.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Laura Russo

Laura Russo

Therapist

Virtual • California


“My approach is collaborative and client centered, meaning we will work together to better understand your experiences, identify your needs and strengths, and begin developing coping strategies.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Carrie Eagles

Carrie Eagles

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I have been a social worker for almost 20 years and bring a lot of experience and a strong foundation in the foundation of the field...”
Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression, End of life care
Affirming, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Kimberly Herrera

Kimberly Herrera

Therapist

Virtual • California


I work with individuals, couples, and families seeking meaningful change in their lives. I view psychotherapy as a collaborative process that is supportive, empathetic and nonjudgmental. My role is to provide practical tools, insight, empowerment, and encouragement as you build emotional resilience, resolve internal and interpersonal conflicts, and move toward greater well-being.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Participatory, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Ruby Roberts

Ruby Roberts

Therapist

Virtual • California


“We will explore how your current reality, thought patterns, and internalized judgements are connected to your past lived experiences, environment, family, ancestry, and the social context in which we live.”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, Grief or loss
Creative, Empowering, Open-minded
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Angela Garcia

Angela Garcia

Therapist

Virtual • California


My name is Angela and I have over a decade of experience in working with families and individuals in a therapeutic setting. I am fluent in Spanish and have a diverse background. I take a client-centered, humanistic approach to treatment. I am fluent in CBT, psychodynamic therapy, and have a specialty in family dynamics.

Relationship issues, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Energetic, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Jessica Terrell

Jessica Terrell

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I believe therapy is a partnership; you are the expert on your life, and my role is to provide guidance...”
Relationship issues, Anxiety, Stress management
Empowering, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Dennis Olsen

Dennis Olsen

Therapist

Virtual • California


Hello! My name is Dennis Olsen and I am currently A Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. I have worked with children, teenagers, and adults focusing on issues such as stress, anxiety, addiction, co-dependency, family issues, relationship issues, and many more. My joy and purpose on earth is to help others become their best self! I genuinely do care about my clients and want to see them thrive despite all the hardships or obstacles they have endured from their past or currently. I am here to help support you achieve those dreams/goals that have always been on your mind. There are a multitude of unhealthy habits and excuses that get in the way of improving ourselves each day. My hope is to help you get closer towards those goals during our time together through discussion, challenging activities, opening up, and building positive coping skills/healthy habits.

Relationship issues, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Bernadette Brennecke

Bernadette Brennecke

Therapist

Virtual • California


“I strive to be empathetic, practical and client centered. I attempt to meet the client where they are.”
Relationship issues, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Grief or loss
Challenging, Direct, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Maurine Forche

Maurine Forche

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • California


“My approach is built on three things: listening, understanding, and paying attention to the details that others might miss.”
ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Diabetes
Energetic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers

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Find the right couples therapist for you

Headway makes it easy to find support for your relationship — from finding the right provider, to understanding costs, to scheduling with ease.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Couples Therapist in San Diego

Finding couples therapists in San Diego starts with understanding what you and your partner want to work on together. Couples therapy, couples counseling, marriage counseling, and relationship therapy can support concerns like communication patterns, recurring conflict, trust after infidelity, major life changes, and parenting disagreements. Not all therapists have specific training in couples work, so review each therapist’s listed specialties, credentials, and approach. You may want to look for a licensed marriage and family therapist, or a therapist trained in couples methods like the Gottman Method or emotionally focused therapy.

San Diego has many therapists across neighborhoods like Hillcrest, North Park, La Jolla, and Mission Valley, which can make narrowing the search more involved. For couples, the right match also needs to work for two schedules, two preferences, and either an in-person or virtual format. Consider appointment availability, office location, session structure, and whether a therapist offers a brief consultation before booking. Reading bios can help you understand how a therapist works with couples, how they describe their communication style, and whether their experience fits what you want from San Diego relationship counseling.

Couples therapy in San Diego can be a significant investment without insurance. Using in-network insurance is one of the most reliable ways to reduce session costs and understand what you may pay before your first appointment. Headway helps you search for marriage therapists in San Diego who are accepting new patients, review detailed profiles, check estimated costs based on your plan, and book directly when you’re ready.

If you're experiencing or worried about violence, threats, or coercion in your relationship, couples therapy isn't usually the right starting point — individual support is safer. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788\) can help you think through next steps.

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