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Top grief and loss counseling therapists in Tulsa, OK

Navigating grief after losing a loved one is deeply personal, and Tulsa residents can access compassionate grief therapy through Headway's network of 439 providers. We offer evidence-based treatments including grief counseling, Prolonged Grief Disorder Therapy, and support for anticipatory grief, available both virtually and in-person. Free consultations are available to help you find the right fit for your healing journey.

Deborah Tommey

Deborah Tommey

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I start with an optimistic view of all individuals and provide a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere, without judgment, where you can find answers that help you move forward and establish what you want to achieve in talking.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, LGBTQIA+, PTSD
Energetic, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Kayla Franks

Kayla Franks

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is relational, trauma-informed, and collaborative. I draw from EMDR, Internal Family Systems, Attachment-Based Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy...”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, Infertility
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Twyla Terry-McCarrell

Twyla Terry-McCarrell

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Greetings!

My name is Twyla Terry-McCarrell, and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Dallas, Texas, serving clients across Texas, Oklahoma, and Georgia via telehealth. I hold a master’s degree in counseling from Dallas Theological Seminary and specialize in trauma-informed therapy. I help adults navigate and heal from experiences of abandonment, anxiety, depression, grief, PTSD, and CPTSD. My practice is dedicated to creating a safe, compassionate space where you can explore your story, reclaim your voice, and move toward lasting recovery.

Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Relationship issues
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Cassie Mahan

Cassie Mahan

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I show up with warmth, respect, and genuine curiosity about who you are, not just what you're struggling with.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Empowering, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Marchella Dennis

Marchella Dennis

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“With nearly a decade of experience, I help women build stronger coping skills, improve communication, and create healthier dynamics at home and in their relationships.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues, PTSD
Direct, Energetic, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Jamee Greenwood

Jamee Greenwood

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“My approach to therapy is a holistic one, combining the mind, body and spirit, so that a person can heal from the inside out.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Sandra Haynes

Sandra Haynes

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I'm a trauma-informed therapist who offers a calm, steady space for healing, clarity, and emotional regulation.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Inquisitive, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Natalie Staggers

Natalie Staggers

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“You can expect a warm, empowering, and nonjudgmental space where you feel supported while also encouraged to grow.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Maria Rozell

Maria Rozell

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe therapy should be a safe, supportive space where you can be honest about what you are experiencing without fear of judgment.”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship issues, Stress management
Direct, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jacquelynn Blackwell

Jacquelynn Blackwell

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach to therapy is compassionate, collaborative, and deeply human. I strive to create a safe, supportive, and affirming space where clients feel genuinely seen and heard.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Jennifer Hughes

Jennifer Hughes

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Hello! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma with over 10 years of experience in the mental health field. I hold a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of Oklahoma and have nearly 8 years of experience providing counseling services to children, adolescents, and adults in a variety of treatment settings. I have experience helping individuals navigate anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, trauma, stress, life transitions, and other emotional challenges that can make daily life feel overwhelming. My goal is to provide a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where clients feel safe to be themselves, build insight, strengthen coping skills, and work toward meaningful personal growth.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Creative, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Tracie Martin

Tracie Martin

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Together we explore the thoughts, emotions, and patterns that may be fueling anxiety or keeping you stuck.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Shelley Eagleman-Bointy

Shelley Eagleman-Bointy

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I've heard too many stories from people who finally reach out for help—something that already takes so much—and end up feeling unseen or misunderstood.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Mary Banks

Mary Banks

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Effective counseling begins with the quality of the relationship between the counselor and the client.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Ferdinande Djioto

Ferdinande Djioto

Psychiatric Mental Health NP

Virtual • Oklahoma


“While caring for my clients, I take the time to listen to them and work together to design a personalized treatment plan that suits their needs.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Lauren Robinson

Lauren Robinson

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I use humor and positive/affirming approaches to help my clients feel safe and comfortable in each session...”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Cultural & ethnic issues
Empowering, Humorous, Open-minded
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Morris Wynn

Morris Wynn

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I have been honored to listen to life stories and to witness self-awareness, healing and transformation in others.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
De'Shaun Thornton

De'Shaun Thornton

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My style is supportive, compassionate, and strengths-based, helping clients build tools to manage emotions, cope with stress, and navigate life's challenges.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Creative, Humorous, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Shelley McCarty

Shelley McCarty

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach is holistic, client-centered, and trauma-informed, with a strong focus on empowering clients to make meaningful, lasting changes in their lives.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Direct, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Theda Griffin

Theda Griffin

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


Hello, I'm Theda. With over 25 years of experience in the mental health and addiction fields, I have had the privilege of working with individuals, groups, and families in various clinical settings, including inpatient, outpatient, in-home, and group homes. My journey in mental health began with a Bachelor of Science in Psychology and a Master of Education in Agency Counseling from Southwestern Oklahoma State University, and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Deborah Cruz-Bowen

Deborah Cruz-Bowen

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Mental health is not just my profession, but my passion, and I will hold space for you to express the full range of emotions that arise in our work.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Anna Kettlewood

Anna Kettlewood

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I am a very open-minded therapist. I have worked with a large range of different people in different settings. I have worked with kiddos from age 4 to adults aged 70+ and have found what works best for each individual I work with. I studied my undergrad at Cleveland State University and got my masters at Northeastern State University in Oklahoma. After, I worked school-base, home-based, as well as within the workers comp world so have worked with a little of everything!

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Open-minded, Solution-oriented
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Jacqueline Millspaugh

Jacqueline Millspaugh

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oklahoma City, OK


“I have a relational, collaborative approach to treatment and am focused on helping individuals and families navigate life's changes and challenges from youth through adulthood.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression
Open-minded, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
James Garner

James Garner

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My goal is to meet you where you are, provide a safe and supportive environment, and work alongside you as you pursue healing, growth, and lasting change.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Chronic conditions
Direct, Participatory, Solution-oriented
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Dr. Clifford McManus

Dr. Clifford McManus

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I am a Doctor of Social Work and Licensed Clinical Social Worker with training in trauma-informed care. I support individuals in building self-determination and addressing maladaptive thought patterns that contribute to anxiety and depression.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues
Direct, Empowering, Holistic
Accepts 6 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Allison Fond

Allison Fond

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My approach to therapy centers on creating a safe, supportive space where you feel truly heard and understood.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Solution-oriented
Accepts 11 insurance carriers
Shawnquita Walker

Shawnquita Walker

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma City, OK


“My therapeutic approach is grounded in the belief that each person's story is unique, and within those narratives lie the keys to understanding and transformation.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 6 insurance carriers
Todd Smetana

Todd Smetana

Therapist

Virtual • Tulsa, OK


I help people move from simply coping to genuinely thriving. I hold a Master's in Human Relations with an emphasis in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of Oklahoma, along with advanced training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). My background spans neurological rehabilitation, residential behavioral health, crisis intervention, and telehealth — and my experience outside of clinical work gives me a grounded, practical understanding of stress, leadership dynamics, and personal growth. I work with adults and youth ages 8 and older, and I'm currently accepting new clients.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Empowering, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Stephanie Gilliam

Stephanie Gilliam

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I am a licensed mental health counselor in Florida and a licensed professional counselor in Oklahoma. I work with clients of all ages who are experiencing stress and anxiety. I have more than 10 years experience working with families and caregivers experiencing the loss and changes that come with aging or a dementia diagnosis. I am trained as a support group leader for the Alzheimer's Association.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Chronic conditions
Participatory, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Kristen Hamm

Kristen Hamm

Therapist

Virtual • Prague, OK


I am a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Oklahoma working with individuals who are navigating stress, anxiety, life transitions, and relationship challenges. Many of my clients are highly functioning on the outside but feel overwhelmed, stuck or uncertain underneath. I provide a supportive, grounded space where you can slow down, sort through what is going on and begin moving forward with clarity. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I enjoy helping others gain knowledge and an understanding of themselves; helping manage their thoughts and emotions; gaining peace and improved relationships in their lives. I am here to support and empower you in that journey.

Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder, Depression
Accepts 7 insurance carriers
Heather Hartzell

Heather Hartzell

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My clients would describe me as kind, calm, and an empathetic listener who gives helpful feedback with practical steps you can take to help you achieve your goals.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Family issues, Relationship issues
Affirming, Inquisitive, Warm
Accepts 3 insurance carriers
Norman Markland

Norman Markland

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oklahoma City, OK


“I specialize in a Trauma Based Cognitive Behavioral and Solution Focused Therapy approach to unpacking life's difficult moments and making meaning of the pain you have experience.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Holistic, Solution-oriented
Accepts 5 insurance carriers
Annlyn Armstrong

Annlyn Armstrong

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe that therapy shouldn't be intimidating. My approach is relaxed, deeply empathetic, and tailored to each person's unique journey...”
Grief or loss, Anxiety, Chronic conditions, Depression, End of life care
Creative, Direct, Empowering
Accepts 8 insurance carriers
Don Harris

Don Harris

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I believe that therapy should be a place where people feel safe, respected, and comfortable being open about what they are experiencing.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, Panic disorders
Direct, Holistic, Open-minded
Accepts 5 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Zonzurea Thomas

Zonzurea Thomas

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“I support survivors of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence in a safe, collaborative space to process trauma and rebuild self-trust.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Anxiety, Cultural & ethnic issues, Depression
Empowering, Energetic, Humorous
Accepts 9 insurance carriers
Kelli Ellis

Kelli Ellis

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“My job is to come along and turn your box upside down and offer you strategies, resources, and coping skills to help you see a different perspective.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Family issues
Direct, Solution-oriented, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Michelle Grimmer

Michelle Grimmer

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


Hello! My name is Michelle and I am a licensed professional counselor. I have been working in the mental health field for 11 years. I have worked with individuals and couples experiencing a variety of issues including family conflict, depression and anxiety, stress-related issues, domestic violence, trauma, anger management, communication challenges, self-esteem, and many more. My counseling style is warm , calm and interactive. I believe in treating everyone with respect and compassion.

Grief or loss, Family issues, Physical health issues, Relationship issues, Stress management
Affirming, Holistic, Warm
Accepts 10 insurance carriers
Debra Lamar

Debra Lamar

Therapist

Virtual & in-person • Oklahoma City, OK


“I believe you're not broken—you're someone doing your best, and sometimes you just need a kind, steady guide when paths get rocky.”
Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Affirming, Empowering, Warm
Accepts 11 insurance carriers

Offers free consultationsView profile and book
Gladwell Kisitu

Gladwell Kisitu

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


I have been a licensed therapist and have worked in the field for the last 5yrs.I am passionate about creating space for individual to experience healing.I am trained in Cognitive Behavioral Health therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Grief or loss, ADD/ADHD, Anger management, Anxiety, Bipolar disorder
Holistic, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 4 insurance carriers
Terri Frazee

Terri Frazee

Therapist

Virtual • Oklahoma


“Tell me your story. I want to work on the areas important to you. It's your session. You lead the way.”
Grief or loss, Anger management, Chronic conditions, Panic disorders, Trauma
Affirming, Open-minded, Warm
Accepts 7 insurance carriers

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